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Thursday, August 27, 2009

20 Qualities 4 Successful Life

1>Sincerity. Be sincere in your actions. Don’t try to deceive or impress others. Be yourself, and do what you feel is right based on your values and beliefs. You will be surprised at how people accept you when you stop trying to be someone you aren’t.

2>Unfeigned. Be genuine in what you do; your actions speak louder than your words. Don’t f
alsify or embellish events that may have happened. Don’t say one thing and do the other.

3>Wholehearted. Be enthusiastic about what you do. Show it. Be committed to life and everything that you set out to accomplish in life. Devote yourself to your family, friends, and community and commit yourself to being the best father, husband, wife, mother, friend, and neighbor you can be.

4>Honest. Be honest in your dealings with yourself and with others. When others interact with you, let them see someone who is reputable, respectable and genuine. Do what you say you will do and never use fraud or deception to get ahead in life. Let ethics, morals, and honor be your compass.

5>Heartfelt. When you do something for someone, or they do something for you, let your thanks and emotion be openly and outwardly expressed towards them.

6>Hearty. Be someone who displays an honest, warm, and exuberant personality to those around them. Let your feelings show and let them be genuine when they do.

7>Humility. Don’t lead a life thinking you are better than others or are superior to those around you. Modesty and humbleness will leave a far more ever lasting impact on people than trying to show off.

8>Personal integrity. Always follow your heartfelt values, and never let a situation or anyone steer you away from doing what you know is right. Be someone that people can look up to and respect and not someone who trades his or her moral values for material gains in life.

9>Incorruptibility. Let it be known that you stand firm for what you believe in and that your morals, values and actions are not for sale. Don’t let outside forces corrupt the person you are.

10>Sound. Show good judgment and sense in life. Don’t let prejudices or emotions cloud your judgment.

11>Whole. Be focused on what you want to achieve in life. Give everyone you interact with your complete and undivided attention.

12>Courtesy. Practice good manners even though others around you may not.

13>Civility. Graciousness and respect go a long way in life. What is more, they are viral – when people see you doing it they are more apt to practice civility themselves. Be kind to others and extend courtesy towards them. Don’t interrupt people when they speak and don’t dominate the conversation.

14>Wisdom. Gain from the wisdom that is inside you. Understand the inner qualities of people and learn how to understand situations that might be different than we are used to.

15>Charity. Practice kind, gentle, and compassionate treatment of others – especially those who may be undeserving. Learn to extend a hand to help others, even though they themselves may not have helped you.

16>Empathy. Be aware that each person is different and may have different values and beliefs than those that you hold. Be understanding of the feelings and thoughts of others without having to be told or reminded of them.

17>Sympathy. Share your feelings with others and understand the emotional situations that people go through. Put yourself in their shoes.

18>Compassion. When someone is in distress, reach out with a genuine interest in helping alleviate their suffering.

19>Altruism. Think of others without thinking of yourself. Do good things for people without expecting something in return for yourself.

20>Magnanimous. Be generous in life. Give of your time, money and wisdom. Share with others so they can see the true joy and adventures of life themselves.

Sunday, August 23, 2009

5 Points 4 Success


12 Points of Success



1.You've got to love what you do.I don't care what you do... There's got to be something... You got to find that thing inside that industry and love it.


2.To be a winner you've got to think like a winner, act like a winner, live like a winner. You can never think about the losing position. Winning is an attitude. You may lose the battle, but you won't lose the war. You have to think like a winner. You gotta walk like a winner, talk like a winner. Everything is up up up up.


3.The support of your spouse can be absolutely key to your success. It's not nessecary, but it's key. If you don't have it, it's alright, but you'll work harder.


4.Always have a prenuptial agreement. It's just life. (The only regret I have from the past twenty years is) I didn't do my marriages right... I gotta tell you something- I've grown up. This is my last marriage. I will make this marriage work. There's nothing more important than this marriage. If you're going to be wealthy, you have to have a prenuptial agreement.


5.Attract the best people and get the best advice. Look for a track record.


6.Go with your gut- Surround yourself with the best people and the best advice, but when it comes down to it, the leader uses his gut. You know inside. You got to be careful not to get too many councelors on the outside who've got other agendas.


7.Be lucky- You want to know what lucky is? Lucky is available. Lucky is show up. Lucky is be there. The harder I work the luckier I get.


8.Be paranoid- People will hurt you especially if you go too far out of their sights. Paranoid, not in a negative sense of paranoid... If you think something's going to happen then use your head- that's that gut thing.




9.Get even- If someone screws you, screw them back 15 times harder. Don't ever stop, you're doing everyone else a service. Business is business, you need to make sure you play the game so that people understand that you're serious.


10.Stay focused- Keep the main thing the main thing. Where the focus goes the energy flows and the results show.


11.Keep your momentum- Don't lose it or you start all over.


12.Never EVER quit. You want to know the difference between the big and the small? It's one word. Hard work is the beginning of success. The key is relentlessness.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

20 Points For Success

1. God & Family -- Without God's grace and the support of our family, We could not do anything.

2. Hard Work -- That sounds cliché...but it takes hard work to be successful...Life is not easy...It's not supposed to be.

3. Doing Whatever It Took - Do whatever it takes...any job that must be done...any position that must be filled to complete the mission is your responsibility...Find A Way.

4. Being Surrounded by Good People -- "Over achievers"...Learn to identify good people...Figure out how to get them on your team...Learn what motivates them and provide that motivation.

5. Setting The Work Ethic Example -- Get in early, stay late...Work neatly...Work efficiently...Work in the same manner you expect your people to work.

6. Always Pushing To Get Better -- Do one thing every day that makes you a little better at your job...Remember in our world 75% is average...If you can get to 76% you have three-fourths of your competition beat.

7. Studying -- To learn you must study...To pass exams in school you had to study hard...Life, business, or big exams...To get high grades you've got to study...The world is full of books, videos and information other people have gathered for years...Use it!

8. Not Being Intimidated By My Competition -- I respect them but don't let them intimidate me...Never underestimate your competition...Always try to overestimate them...If they are stronger than you think they are, you get beat...If they aren't as strong as you think, you beat them easier.

9. Belief In The Team And The Project -- Strong belief in a project by its leader trickles down to the troops...That belief soon becomes confidence.

10. Willingness To Put Personal Gain Behind The Project -- When your mind set changes from "what is this project going to do for me" to "what more can I do to make this project successful", you are about to accomplish big things.

11. Making Change When Change Is Needed -- You have to be willing to change direction when needed...Never change for the sake of change...Make sure you have a reason, purpose and direction...Then make your change without looking back.

12. Working On My Weaknesses -- We all have them...Identify them...Go to work on them...Eliminate them.

13. Working On Communication -- You can't lead if you can't communicate...effective and clear communication is a great tool that is seldom used properly.

14. Resources And Using Them -- Identify them...Acquire them...Use them.

15. Being Able to Focus On Short-term Goals Without Distraction -- You need long range goals
for sure but you also need short term goals...Train yourself to keep an eye on the tree while grabbing the low hanging fruit first.

16. Having The Freedom To Do My Job -- If you give someone a project...give them guidance, resources and time frames and let them go...Don't Micro-manage.

17. Creating Team Spirit -- Everyone wants to be part of something special...Create something
special for your people to be a part of.

18. Sharing The Money And The Glory -- Nothing great is ever accomplished alone...If your team's performance is rewarded by money and glory, make sure that everyone shares in the rewards.

19. Always Having A Plan And Sharing It With The Team -- People have got to know where you are going before they will follow you...Share your vision often...Soon your team will see it, too.

20. Compassion, Passion and Emotion -- You can't be great without it...Have compassion for your people...Let them know it...Have passion for your mission...Make sure everyone knows it.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

SUCCESS

1.Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing.


2.If A is success in life, then A equals x plus y plus z. Work is x; y is play; and z is keeping your mouth shut.

3.Try not to become a man of success but rather to become a man of value.

4.A great secret of success is to go through life as a man who never gets used up.

5.A discovery is said to be an accident meeting a prepared mind.

6.To follow, without halt, one aim: There's the secret of success.

7.If your success is not on your own terms, if it looks good to the world but does not feel good in your heart, it is not success at all.

8.It is possible to fail in many ways...while to succeed is possible only in one way.

9.Of course there is no formula for success except perhaps an unconditional acceptance of life and what it brings.

10.Why be a man when you can be a success?

11.I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody.

12.What's money? A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.

13.The person who makes a success of living is the one who see his goal steadily and aims for it unswervingly. That is dedication.

14.Nothing succeeds like the appearance of success.

15.There is only one success - to be able to spend your life in your own way.

16.The man of virtue makes the difficulty to be overcome his first business, and success only a subsequent consideration.

17.Real success is finding your lifework in the work that you love.

18.Success in business requires training and discipline and hard work. But if you're not frightened by these things, the opportunities are just as great today as they ever were.


19.Aim for success, not perfection. Never give up your right to be wrong, because then you will lose the ability to learn new things and move forward with your life.

20.We succeed only as we identify in life, or in war, or in anything else, a single overriding objective, and make all other considerations bend to that one objective.

21.Success is counted sweetest by those who ne'er succeed.

22.Success didn't spoil me, I've always been insufferable.

23.Nothing changes your opinion of a friend so surely as success - yours or his.


24.I owe my success to having listened respectfully to the very best advice, and then going away and doing the exact opposite.


25.Nothing fails like success.

26.To freely bloom - that is my definition of success.

27.My mother drew a distinction between achievement and success. She said that 'achievement is the knowledge that you have studied and worked hard and done the best that is in you. Success is being praised by others, and that's nice, too, but not as important or satisfying. Always aim for achievement and forget about success.'

28.Men are born to succeed, not fail.

29.Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it.

Monday, August 10, 2009

THE SECRET OF SUCCESS

SECRET 01
Some people follow their dreams, others hunt them down and beat them mercilessly into submission. Go confidently in the direction of your dreams In the long run, we only hit what we aim at
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Life is what we make of it, always has been, always will be Life itself cannot give you joy, unless you will it. Life just gives you time and space, it’s up to you to fill it
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Every day matters
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Never, never, never, never give up Make a success of living by seeing a goal and aiming for it unswervingly. You never really lose until you stop trying
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Champions believe in themselves even if no one else does In order to succeed, we must first believe that we can They can because they think they can
SECRET 06
To move the world, we must first move ourselves Whether you think you can or you can’t, you’re right It’s not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves
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SECRET 07
You become a champion by fighting one more round. When things are tough, you fight one more round. When you get into a tight place and it seems like you can’t go on, hold on, for that’s just the place and time that the tide will turn Most people give up just when they’re about to achieve success. They quit on the one yard line. They give up at the last minute of the game one foot from a winning touchdown .
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SECRET 08
A mistake is only a mistake if you don’t learn from it Life’s challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they are supposed to help you discover who you are. If I had to live my life over again, I’d dare to make more mistakes next time
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SECRET 09
You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. Challenges can be stepping stones or stumbling blocks. It’s just a matter of how you look at them. The purpose of life is to live it, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience
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SECRET 10
Always imitate the behavior of winners when you lose
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SECRET 11
Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail .
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SECRET 12
Winners make goals, losers make excuses
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SECRET 13
Jump into the middle of things, get your hands dirty, fall flat on your face, and then reach for the stars. Get busy living or get busy dying Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration. When you play, play hard. When you work, don’t play at all.
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SECRET 14
The key to achievement lies in being a “how” thinker, not an “if” thinker
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SECRET 15
The path of no risk is the biggest risk of all
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SECRET 16
It takes courage to push yourself to places that you have never been before...to test you limits...to break through barriers Fortune favors the brave. To conquer without risk is to triumph without glory.
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SECRET 17
Fix your eyes on perfection and you make almost everything speed towards it. Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anyone expects of you. Hope sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible. We only learn our limits by going beyond them
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SECRET 18
Always do your best. What you plant now, you will harvest later
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SECRET 19
It takes time to be a success, but time is all it takes
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SECRET 20
Do the little things well now. In time great things will be presented to you waiting to be done. The beginnings of all things are small In creating, the only hard thing is to begin
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SECRET 22
Don’t be afraid to go out on a limb...that is where the fruit is. .
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SECRET 21
How do you know so much about everything? was asked by a very wise and intelligent man; and the answer was 'By never being afraid or ashamed to ask questions as to anything of which I was ignorant.
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SECRET 23
Seize the day Opportunity is missed by most people because it’s dressed in overalls and looks like work. Opportunities are seldom labeled

SECRET 24
Don’t let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do .
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SECRET 25
Knowing how to win is the first step, we must also know how to make use of victories
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SECRET 26
Always do right. This will gratify some people and astonish the rest In matters of style, swim with the current; in matters of principle, stand like a rock . If you gotta lose, lose ’em right Be faithful to that which exists within yourself .
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SECRET 27
Promise, then perform
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SECRET 28
Only from the alliance of everyone working with and through each other, are great things born.
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SECRET 29
From what we get, we can make a living; what we give, however, makes a life. Note how good you feel after you have encouraged someone else. No other argument is necessary to suggest that never miss the opportunity to give encouragement. There is no such thing as a 'self-made' man. We are made up of thousands of others. Everyone who has ever done a kind deed for us, or spoken one word of encouragement to us, has entered into the make-up of our character and of our thoughts, as well as our success. .
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SECRET 30
Early one morning, an old man was standing on the beach throwing back starfish that had washed ashore in the night. The man was weak and very old. Each throw took a little more energy out the man, but he kept on throwing. The beach was covered so you could hardly take a step and not find another dying starfish. A young man approached the shoreline and asked the old man what he was doing. He replied “I’m making a difference.” The young man looked around and laughed “A difference? There are probably a million starfish on this beach, you can’t possibly think you will make a difference. The old man picked up another starfish and said “It makes a difference to this one...” and threw back into the sea.
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May the road rise up to meet you; May the wind always be at your back; May the sun shine warm upon your face; May the rain fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again may God hold you in the palm of his hand.
You’ve failed many times. Although you may not remember. You fell down the first time you tried to walk. You almost drowned the first time you tried to swim, didn’t you? Did you hit the ball the first time you swung a bat? Heavy hitters, the ones who hit the most home runs, also strike out alot. R.H. Macy failed seven times before his store in New York caught on. English novelist John Creasey got 753 rejection slips before he published 564 books. Babe Ruth struck out 1,330 times, but he also hit 715 home runs. Don’t worry about failure. Worry about the chances you miss when you don’t even try. You don't have to have the lead if you have the courage to come from behind
To be a star, you must shine your own light, follow your own path, and don’t worry about the darkness, for that is when stars shine brightest
He has achieved success who has lived well, laughed often and loved much; who has enjoyed the trust of pure women, the respect of intelligent men and the love of little children; who has filled his niche and accomplished his task; who has left the world better than he found it, whether by an improved poppy, a perfect poem, or a rescued soul; who has never lacked appreciation of earth's beauty or failed to express it; who has always looked for the best in others and given them the best he had; whose life was an inspiration; whose memory is a benediction.
Thank you